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Online therapist

Sally Millsap

Practical support for parents and families

Credentials
LCSW
Experience
30 years
Licensed in
California
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Sally

Sally Millsap is a licensed clinical social worker with thirty years of experience supporting families and parents. She focuses on family concerns, parenting, grief, trauma, stress, anxiety, depression, and addiction. Sally speaks plainly and helps parents find concrete steps they can try between sessions.

Her work is practical and grounded in everyday life. Sally trained at Graceland College, earning a Bachelor of Social Work, and completed a Master of Social Work at the University of Iowa.

Background and approach

Much of her career has been in medical social work across four states, including hospital and rehab settings. She began in inpatient rehabilitation, counseling patients and their families after strokes, spinal cord injuries, and head injuries.

She later worked in high-risk obstetrics and neonatal intensive care, supporting pregnant people, parents of NICU babies, and families facing drug exposure, fetal loss, or adoption decisions. In California over the past decade she has worked at a childrens hospital on a Child Protection Team and co-facilitated a grief support group.

Sally often meets with parents of children who have chronic medical needs or who are navigating big life changes. She draws on several evidence-informed methods, including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Trauma-Focused Therapy, and adapts sessions to what a family needs right now. Her style is warm, straightforward, and focused on doable steps that reduce stress at home.

She works in English and accepts clients in California as well as international clients for remote work. Sally combines clinical experience with a long history of hands-on hospital practice to help families cope and move forward.

Approaches and online care for busy families

Sally uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without getting stuck, then choose actions that match their values. ACT is often useful for anxiety, stress, and life changes that get in the way of parenting and day-to-day functioning.

She also uses Trauma-Focused Therapy to address the effects of past or recent traumatic events. This approach helps people process hard experiences and reduce their impact on family life and relationships.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk with each person or parent about goals, preferences, and what feels doable, then tailor methods to fit the familys needs and pace.

Online sessions are offered via video calls, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different schedules. These options make it easier for parents and caregivers to connect from home, reduce travel time, and keep continuity during busy or medically demanding periods. Licensed professionals can adapt exercises and homework to work well across these formats, allowing practical tools to be used between sessions.

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

Less about arguing with difficult thoughts, more about loosening their grip and acting on what matters to you anyway. Values and committed action carry the work, which suits conversation at a distance.

Client-Centered Therapy

The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.

Solution-Focused Therapy

Rather than examining the problem at length, this looks at what is already working and builds on it. Sessions tend to be practical and forward-looking, with small achievable steps, which translates readily to shorter online conversations.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she help with?
Sally supports family and parenting issues along with grief, trauma and abuse, stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, relationship and intimacy issues, and many related concerns.
How would you describe her therapy style?
Her style is warm and direct, with an emphasis on clear, practical steps parents can try between sessions to reduce stress and improve family routines.
What is her professional background?
She has 30 years of social work experience, much of it in medical settings including rehab, high-risk OB, NICU work, and a childrens hospital Child Protection Team.
What credentials does she hold and where is she based?
She holds the LCSW license, registered as CA LCSW 28304, and practices from California.
Which languages are available for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English.
What formats are used for therapy sessions?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging as ways to connect.
How does cost and payment work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapists availability.

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Experience
30 years
Licensed
California
Languages
English

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