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Online therapist

Roger Schwarz

Compassionate, experienced relationship therapist

Credentials
LMFT
Experience
27 years
Licensed in
California
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Roger

Roger Schwarz is a licensed marriage and family therapist with 27 years of experience in California. He focuses on relationship and family concerns along with stress, anxiety, and addictive behaviors. Roger speaks English and accepts international clients.

He approaches work in a practical, down-to-earth way and treats people as the experts on their own lives. Roger starts by listening closely to what a person or household is actually dealing with.

Background and approach

He looks for strengths you already have and helps you use them. Sessions are aimed at clear, doable changes rather than long talks that go nowhere. He draws from different therapy methods to match needs.

That may include looking at how attachment patterns shape interactions. It can also mean using skills-based cognitive-behavioral techniques to reduce anxiety or compulsive behaviors. Roger has long experience with relationship problems, infidelity, fatherhood issues, family of origin concerns, and the hard practical work around divorce and separation.

He also addresses process and sex addictions, obsessive-compulsive patterns, and social anxiety. In early meetings he helps set simple goals and a clear plan. He aims to make therapy feel useful and manageable.

For many people this approach helps reduce stress and improve important connections.

Therapy approaches and how online sessions support them

The practice combines approaches to suit what each person needs. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early bonds shape current relationships and helps people change how they respond to closeness and conflict. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, focuses on the links between thoughts, feelings, and actions and teaches practical skills to reduce anxiety and compulsive behaviors.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist collaborates with clients to decide which methods fit their goals and preferences. That means adjusting tools and pace as progress and needs become clearer.

Online therapy offers flexibility in how people connect. Video calls let you read facial expression and tone, phone sessions are a simpler way to talk, and live chat or text-based messaging can work for shorter check-ins or when schedules are tight. These options make it easier to fit regular sessions into busy family lives and to continue therapy when travel or distance would otherwise get in the way.

Attachment-Based Therapy

Looks at how early bonds shaped what you expect from closeness, and how that plays out now with a partner, a parent, or your own children.

Client-Centered Therapy

The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Roger address?
He works with relationship issues, stress, anxiety, and a variety of addictions. Additional focuses include codependency, family problems, infidelity, and sexual concerns.
What is his therapy style like?
He listens first and looks for strengths you already have. Sessions emphasize practical steps and clear, manageable goals.
How much experience does he bring?
Roger has 27 years of professional experience working with clients on relationship and related concerns.
What are his credentials and location?
He is a licensed marriage and family therapist, CA LMFT 34231, practicing in California.
Which languages and international options are supported?
Sessions are offered in English and he accepts international clients.
What session formats are available?
Therapy is offered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.
How does cost and payment work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a time based on therapist availability.

Specialties and expertise

Top specialties

  • Relationship issues

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Experience
27 years
Licensed
California
Languages
English

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