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Online therapist

Matthew Furlong

Compassionate counseling with practical tools

Credentials
LPC
Experience
25 years
Licensed in
New Jersey
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Matthew

Matthew Furlong is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) practicing in New Jersey with 25 years of experience. He focuses on practical support for people facing stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, and major life changes. He speaks plainly and helps clients name what feels hard and take manageable steps forward.

Matthew believes clients know their own stories and brings steady guidance to help build on existing strengths. Matthew draws from Client-Centered Therapy to create a respectful, nonjudgmental space.

Background and approach

He uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, to spot unhelpful thinking and try different behaviors. Existential ideas also shape conversations about meaning, values, and choices when life feels uncertain. Sessions tend to be collaborative and straightforward.

He works on things like self-esteem, motivation, communication problems, and navigating grief. Matthew also addresses relationship strain, parenting concerns, anger, and intimacy-related issues in a practical way. Parents reading this will find clear, step-by-step support rather than abstract theory.

He frames goals in everyday terms and checks in often to adjust the plan. The focus is on small changes that add up to better coping and clearer decision making. For people dealing with trauma, post-traumatic stress, social anxiety, or ADHD-related challenges, Matthew offers a steady, experience-based approach.

He aims to reduce isolation and shame while helping clients build skills they can use outside sessions.

Therapeutic approaches and online options

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on respect and listening. The therapist mirrors what clients say, honors their perspective, and helps them find their own solutions. This approach is helpful when someone needs a steady, accepting space to talk through stress, self-esteem, or family concerns.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at how thoughts, feelings, and actions link together. It involves identifying unhelpful thinking patterns and testing new behaviors to reduce anxiety, depression, and mood problems. CBT tends to be practical and skill-focused, useful for day-to-day coping and for managing symptoms like worry or avoidance.

Existential Therapy brings conversations about values, meaning, and choice into sessions. It helps when life changes or uncertainty make decisions feel heavy, and it supports people who want clearer priorities rather than quick fixes.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with each person about their goals, preferences, and what feels most useful. Together they decide which methods to try and adjust the plan as needed so the approach fits the client, not the other way around.

Online therapy offers flexibility through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. These formats make it easier to fit sessions into busy schedules, follow up between meetings, and get consistent support without extra travel. For many people, remote sessions allow steady progress while keeping therapy accessible and adaptable.

Client-Centered Therapy

The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.

Existential Therapy

Takes the larger questions seriously: meaning, choice, mortality, responsibility. Suited to periods when the difficulty is less a symptom than a sense that something has to change.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Matthew commonly address?
He helps with stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, coping with life changes, and parenting. Additional areas include trauma and abuse, grief, relationship and intimacy issues, anger, ADHD, and related mood or social anxiety problems.
What is his general therapeutic style?
Sessions are collaborative and straightforward. He uses respectful listening, practical suggestions, and skills-based work to help clients make small, realistic changes.
How long has he been practicing?
Matthew has 25 years of professional experience working with people on a range of concerns.
What are his credentials and where is he based?
He holds the Licensed Professional Counselor credential, LPC, and is licensed in New Jersey with license number NJ LPC 37PC00394600.
Which languages are supported for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English.
Are international clients accepted?
International clients are not currently accepted.
What session formats are available?
Sessions can be conducted via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.
How does payment and getting started work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time. To begin, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule based on therapist availability.

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Experience
25 years
Licensed
New Jersey
Languages
English

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