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Online therapist

Monica Olsen

Compassionate family therapy with practical steps

Credentials
LMFT
Experience
21 years
Licensed in
Oregon
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Monica

Monica Olsen is a licensed marriage and family therapist who helps parents and families find clearer ways to manage everyday strains. She focuses on relationship and parenting concerns and supports people coping with stress, anxiety, depression, and addictions. Her tone is straightforward and practical for families who want workable changes.

She draws on 21 years of clinical experience to see patterns in how family histories affect current problems. That systems perspective looks at how roles, routines, and expectations shape interactions at home.

Background and approach

Monica uses that view to help families make sense of recurring conflicts and make specific changes that fit their lives. In sessions she uses tools from cognitive behavioral therapy to change unhelpful thoughts and habits. She also brings emotionally-focused therapy to help partners and family members connect more safely and get past repeating cycles.

For clients with traumatic histories, she incorporates trauma-focused approaches to reduce overwhelming reactions. Monica pays particular attention to blended family issues, codependency, and struggles around control. She works to create simple steps parents can try between sessions and to build better communication at home.

Her style aims to be supportive while staying focused on practical solutions. Based in Oregon, Monica provides services in English and sees international clients as well. She blends clinical training with real-world understanding to help families move toward more stable, respectful relationships.

How Monica's Approaches Work Online

Monica integrates cognitive behavioral therapy and emotionally-focused therapy into online sessions. Cognitive behavioral therapy helps identify unhelpful thoughts and habits and replaces them with more effective actions; it is useful for anxiety, depression, and everyday stress. Emotionally-focused therapy focuses on improving emotional connection between family members and partners, helping people understand and change repeating interaction patterns.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work together. Monica will talk with each family or parent about needs, goals, and comfort with different methods. She collaborates to pick techniques that match what matters most to the family and adjusts the plan as progress is made.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging, which offer flexibility for busy households. These options make it easier to fit sessions around school, work, and caregiving. Monica uses the same therapy tools online as in person, adapting exercises and communication practice so families can try changes between sessions and bring real-life situations into therapy.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.

Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)

Attends to the emotions underneath a recurring argument or distance, and to the attachment needs driving them. Often used where a relationship keeps returning to the same painful loop.

Trauma-Focused Therapy

Work that takes difficult past experience into account and moves at a pace you set, with attention to feeling steady before anything else. Being in your own space can make that easier for some people.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of family concerns are addressed?
She works with relationship issues, family and parenting challenges, stress, anxiety, addictions, and depression. Additional focus areas include blended family issues, codependency, and control problems.
How would you describe Monica's therapeutic style?
Her approach is practical and direct, using clear exercises and communication practice. She combines changing thought patterns with work on emotional connection and trauma recovery when needed.
What is her professional background?
Monica has 21 years of clinical experience working with families and relationships. That experience informs a systems perspective on how past and present contexts affect family life.
What are her credentials and where is she based?
She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, licensed in Oregon with licence number OR LMFT T0522. Her practice is based in Oregon.
What languages and international options are available?
Sessions are offered in English. She accepts international clients.
In what formats are sessions offered?
Therapy can be delivered by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. These options allow different ways to connect depending on family needs.
How are fees and payment handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription model. The subscription can be canceled at any time.
What are the steps to begin working together?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button and completing a short matching questionnaire. After that, schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Specialties and expertise

Top specialties

  • Relationship issues
  • Family conflicts
  • Parenting issues
Experience
21 years
Licensed
Oregon
Languages
English

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