PuttingFamilyFirst

The therapist listings are provided by BetterHelp and we will earn a commission if you use our link - at no cost to you.

MC Portrait of Mary Cashman
Online therapist

Mary Cashman

Calm, practical help for families

Credentials
LPC
Experience
13 years
Licensed in
Connecticut
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Mary

Mary Cashman is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) practicing in Connecticut with 13 years of experience. She focuses on everyday problems that weigh on families and individuals, such as stress, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, grief, and family conflict. Her style is straightforward and compassionate, aimed at making the first step feel manageable for someone reaching out.

Mary creates a calm space where people can speak freely and feel heard. Mary uses a mix of approaches to match each person's needs.

Background and approach

She often draws on client-centered work to prioritize whatever matters most to the client. She uses cognitive behavioral techniques to help people spot and shift unhelpful thinking patterns. Mindfulness-based strategies and solution-focused methods add practical ways to reduce stress and move toward realistic goals.

In sessions she helps people talk through feelings about loss, guilt, and aging. She also addresses tensions that show up between family members and in close relationships. The focus is on clear, doable steps people can try between sessions.

Mary offers sessions by video, phone, live chat, and text messaging to fit different routines. Sessions are subscription-based and can be canceled at any time. To begin, a short matching questionnaire guides the next steps toward scheduling.

Online approaches grounded in practical steps

Client-centered therapy focuses on the person rather than a fixed agenda. In this approach the therapist listens closely, reflects what matters most, and helps clients steer sessions toward their priorities. It is useful for people who need a nonjudgmental space to sort through feelings.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at how thoughts, feelings, and actions connect. It teaches simple, structured ways to challenge unhelpful thoughts and try new behaviors. This approach often helps with anxiety, stress, and low mood by giving clear techniques to practice between sessions.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will talk with each person about goals and preferences, then use one or a blend of methods that make the most sense. That collaborative process helps shape a plan that fits daily life and family routines.

Online sessions are available by video, phone, live chat, or text messaging to increase flexibility. These formats make it easier to fit sessions into busy schedules or to stay connected when travel or other demands arise. Mary adapts tools and exercises to work effectively through the chosen format, keeping the focus on progress and practical coping strategies.

Client-Centered Therapy

The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.

Mindfulness Therapy

Attention training: noticing thoughts and physical feelings as they arrive without being carried off by them. Much of it is practice you do yourself, so guidance over video or audio works much as it would in person.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Mary address?
She works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, family conflict, and grief. Additional focus areas include aging and geriatric issues, plus feelings of guilt and shame.
What is her therapy style like?
Therapy is client-centered and practical. Sessions emphasize listening first, then developing clear steps and coping techniques that fit daily life.
How much experience does she have?
Mary has 13 years of professional experience providing counseling in Connecticut.
What are her credentials and where is she licensed?
She holds the LPC credential and is licensed in Connecticut with licence CT LPC 1415.
Which languages are supported and can international clients join?
Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.
What session formats are available?
Mary offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to suit different needs.
How are costs handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I get started with therapy?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Specialties and expertise

Top specialties

Experience
13 years
Licensed
Connecticut
Languages
English

Next step

Talk to Mary

  • Takes a few minutes
  • Nothing to set up just to look
  • Stop at any point